Today, I feel good about the decision, but last night, I really struggled.

My problem is in defining at what point I should stop throwing every extra cent I have at my debt so that I can live a reasonably balanced life, buying what I need and occasionally, what I want.

Yes, you could take your lunch to work every day and save a ton of money. But do you have to, just because you’ve decided to live a cash based life and get completely out of debt?

Should you feel guilty if you buy lunch with cash that you could have spent on paying down debt?

If you broke your camera and needed a replacement, should you not buy the camera because you could use that money to reduce your debt even further?

Besides, can’t one consider a family camera a necessity these days? If you want photographs of your family, you’re not going to find them cheaper at a photographers studio than those you’ve taken on your own!

Last night I finally decided that there are limits to my dedication. I want to pay as much as possible on my debts, but only after deciding on a reasonable amount to reserve for family use.

These “rewards” for staying within budget and paying down debt at the predetermined rate I’ve set are deserved and necessary to my future momentum.

Deserved because I am dedicated, but I don’t know if I can sacrifice all the joys that come with living within a fixed budget and knowing you have some extra money to play with every so often.

Necessary because if I continue to adjust my debt payments every time I have a few extra dollars, I worry that I’ll burn myself out of never spending any of that extra money on things that can make life a little easier or more enjoyable now.

This month, I spent $99.99 on a camera, and reserved $75 for the family and extra entertainment this month. (I include dining out in that category also.) As for debts, I chose to pay my normal debt payments, which is the budgeted amount I previously set for paying down my debts.

So, ultimately, I decided to stick with my budget and use my extra money for other things, because if I had been outside my budget this month, I would not have had this extra money.

What about you? Do you think I made the right decision? Do rewards help or hurt your progress to get debt free and live a cash life?