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		<title>If things don&#8217;t improve, I could be out of a job&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 22:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Budget]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[economy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[My employment status isn't looking so secure right now.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ouch. The good news is I still have my part-time job, but the bad news is that I don&#8217;t know for how much longer. </p>
<p>The impact to my budget and debt-payoff goals would be severe.</p>
<p>The company I work for is going through some financial difficulties related to financing. If I lose my job, I&#8217;ll probably have to take on something much less lucrative, at least for a while that could mean a doubling of my work hours for about the same pay.</p>
<p>Since that can&#8217;t happen, I&#8217;ve been working madly to try to trim our expenses in case I end up out of work. I don&#8217;t work enough hours to qualify for unemployment, as far as I know, and staying home with the kids is my number 1 priority. I take them to school and I pick them up, and I won&#8217;t give up the time I have with them, because in about 8 years it will all be gone as they reach college age.</p>
<p>The thing is, I don&#8217;t want to sell anything, but if that&#8217;s what it takes, I&#8217;ll do it. However, my husband seems to be taking the future possible joblessness seriously, and he&#8217;s started to mention ways he can bring in some extra cash.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m spending my days when I&#8217;m home and the kids are at school working on some side income jobs.&#160; Mostly working on a few websites I&#8217;ve got going to try to bring them up to snuff and pull in a few dollars.</p>
<p>I would love to use this money to get out of debt, because right now, my websites are bringing me about $100 a month. If I can increase this by 10, I will be able to quit worrying about my job income. If I can increase this by 20, I would be able to re-implement my serious get-out-of-debt plan where I was on the road to being completely debt free.</p>
<p>I would also be able to stay home permanently. I really don&#8217;t like driving to the office, even though I only do it once or twice a week these days.</p>
<p>I am trying to decide if I want to track this other income activity here on this site, or if I&#8217;m going to stick to strictly talking about my debt payoff journey here. I&#8217;m not sure, but the site is A Financial Journey and I think it would fit in with the theme. Still, it&#8217;s a decision I haven&#8217;t made.</p>
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		<title>An Update on My debts</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:02:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Debt]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160;



Debt
Interest Rate
Amount Owed


American Express
3.99% – until paid
~ $5,800


Home
5.75% – until balloon February 2011
~ $135,000


Truck
4.49%
~ $5,100


Car
3.99%
~ $9,400


Camper/RV
8%
~ $17,000


Student Loan
3.5%
~ $12,000



I said the following at one point here on the site, and it turned out to be so true. Although my rates haven&#8217;t changed, more than one of my friend’s credit cards had favorable rates that were [...]]]></description>
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<th>Debt</th>
<th>Interest Rate</th>
<th>Amount Owed</th>
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<td>American Express</td>
<td>3.99% – until paid</td>
<td>~ $5,800</td>
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<td>Home</td>
<td>5.75% – until balloon February 2011</td>
<td>~ $135,000</td>
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<td>Truck</td>
<td>4.49%</td>
<td>~ $5,100</td>
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<td>Car</td>
<td>3.99%</td>
<td>~ $9,400</td>
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<td>Camper/RV</td>
<td>8%</td>
<td>~ $17,000</td>
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<td>Student Loan</td>
<td>3.5%</td>
<td>~ $12,000</td>
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<p>I said the following at one point here on the site, and it turned out to be so true. Although my rates haven&#8217;t changed, more than one of my friend’s credit cards had favorable rates that were supposedly &quot;locked in&quot; and which subsequently jumped nearly 20%. Therefore, despite the lower interest rate, American Express remains the focus of my debt payoff plan. Once it is gone, I will start work on another debt. (Which will either be my RV or my home.)</p>
<blockquote><p>The thing is, I would like to pay off the camper before the American Express bill because the interest rate is so much more favorable. However, with the current state of the economy and the ever-changing nature of credit card agreements, I worry that my American Express credit card terms will change drastically and unexpectedly and I’ll lose that lovely 3.99% interest rate until the balance is paid off&#8230;.</p>
<p>I have friends who are dealing with unscrupulous credit card companies right now and I have little faith in them myself these days. My biggest fear is that before the new credit card agreement rules go into effect later in the year, many credit card companies might try to take advantage of as many loopholes in the credit card agreements as possible to keep from having customers locked in with very favorable terms long-term.</p>
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		<title>New Year, New Resolutions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Budget]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[cash budget]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life changes have meant short-term goal changes but getting out of debt entirely is still my main target.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, so there&#8217;s actually a lot to report about this month, because I&#8217;ve made quite a few changes in my life that have had financial impact.</p>
<p>My debt repayment has been drastically slowed because I&#8217;ve cut my work hours. I went from working 3 days each week to 2 days each week, and I&#8217;m working towards quitting my job entirely and staying home to improve my family&#8217;s home life.</p>
<p>I have NOT accumulated any additional debt. My cash based living experiment continues to work well, but as yet, I won&#8217;t be able to actually quit my job for quite some time. I&#8217;m down to about 16 &#8211; 20 hours a week. I want to go to about 11 hours a week, but the budget just won&#8217;t allow for that yet so I&#8217;m still picking up some extra work hours from home through the week. (I work from home about 50% of the time for my job as it stands right now.) The 11 hours would allow for 2 days of work while the kids are at school.</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s where I&#8217;m at.</p>
<p>There is some bad news in all this. Last year my husband was receiving a miscellaneous payment from his employer that related to a health insurance rebate of some kind. That payment stopped on the first January 2010 paycheck. I knew it was only for the one year, but when I had reduced my hours from 3 days to 2 days, this money helped cover that gap. Now I don&#8217;t have that nearly $200 per month of income and it&#8217;s seriously hurting my budget.</p>
<p><strong>Steps I&#8217;ve taken to ease the crunch</strong></p>
<p>Got rid of caller ID and call waiting = $6 per month savings</p>
<p>Turned off the data package for my smartphone (I don&#8217;t have cell service at home anyway so the only place I could use this was when I was taking the kids to and from school so this wasn&#8217;t a big hardship for me) = $31.00 per month savings</p>
<p>Downgraded my satellite TV package = $22.00 per month savings</p>
<p>That&#8217;s $59.00 per month and I&#8217;m still looking for other cuts I can make.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m going to reduce my grocery budget but it won&#8217;t be by much, because I&#8217;ve always been pretty efficient with that anyway.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m about to read &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307339459?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=afinancialjourney-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0307339459">America&#8217;s Cheapest Family</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=afinancialjourney-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0307339459" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />&#8221; and see what tips they have but I don&#8217;t hold out much hope that I can reduce things any further than I already have.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, to pay off my debt faster, the only choice for me is more income, and that&#8217;s not on my agenda just yet. I need to take care of family and home first. However, I am still paying as much as possible and still have payoff of debt as my overriding financial goal.</p>
<p>Come bonus time for my husband (and he&#8217;s been assured that bonuses are coming) I plan to use that to pay off as much as possible of the only credit card debt I still have.</p>
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		<title>Is legislation really the right answer when you don’t want to read your contract?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 13:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Debt]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Personal responsibility means we have to know what we're signing. So why should the government be responsible for picking up the slack where lenders are concerned? ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Note: I started this post a long time ago and I&#8217;m just now getting around to finishing it. :)</p>
<p><a href="http://thehill.com/blogs/congress-blog/economy-a-budget/25427-pay-off-your-mortgage-early-for-a-fee-rep-marcia-fudge">http://thehill.com/blogs/congress-blog/economy-a-budget/25427-pay-off-your-mortgage-early-for-a-fee-rep-marcia-fudge</a> (I even left a comment back when it was freshly posted.)</p>
<p>I know I ranted already once on the blog, but I read this the other day and it hit me wrong. I already worry that there&#8217;s too much government interference in my life, but to know that they&#8217;re trying to take away all my responsibilities doesn&#8217;t sit well with me. I have the right to be stupid sometimes. In their effort to save people from lenders who might be trying to take advantage of others&#8217; refusal to take responsibility for their own mistakes (such as not reading or understanding the fine print on a loan), they&#8217;re taking away my rights, little by little.</p>
<p>I do believe it&#8217;s unethical to offer loans to people and then encourage them to skim over the documents so they can be signed faster. However, I also believe this is where we have to be assertive and stand up for our rights to fully read and understand every contract we sign.<span id="more-131"></span></p>
<p>Yes, you&#8217;re likely to get a few evil-eyes when you take an extra half-hour to read the documents the lender wants to summarize to you in 30 seconds of chatter. That&#8217;s not your problem.</p>
<p>You have to be willing to walk away if that lender is behaving in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. I&#8217;ve done it before, when I was negotiating the price on a car purchase, and it was a very trying experience. The salesman/lender (who was the same person in this instance) kept trying to question my offer because if I could make a certain monthly payment, then how could I not afford the car if they stretched out the loan term so that the payment stayed the same. He was pushy and his backhanded questioning of my financial know-how made me angry.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;ll tell you this: When I walked away, I had never felt more powerful. It was a heady experience. And before I left, the manager of the dealership tried to get me to take the car at MY original offer of $4,000 less than the asking price. I refused. No deal is good enough for me to put up with less than ethical and courteous service from the get-go.</p>
<p>The point is, we should all be willing to walk away when we don&#8217;t understand what we&#8217;re being asked to sign. We can&#8217;t expect others to pass laws to protect us from our own laziness and fear of messing up a good deal by balking at something in a contract. Once you put your name on that contract, you&#8217;ve ethically obligated yourself to the terms even if those terms suck as nothing has ever sucked before. Seriously.</p>
<p>And allowing government legislation to continue to pick up the slack where personal responsibility is concerned is dangerous in the extreme.</p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
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		<title>An alternative debt snowball method</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 22:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Debt]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Spouses don't always agree or cooperate when we decide to pay off our debt but there might be a way around that when it comes to the debt snowball...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are ways of working around a spouse who isn’t as enthused about paying off debt and living debt free in the future and I think I stumbled into one of them the other day.</p>
<p>After having my husband’s car die a horrible death a couple of weeks ago and having to buy another one (because my husband is/was positive this car could not be fixed for less than it would cost to buy another car) it occurred to me that I might just be going about my debt snowball all wrong.<span id="more-134"></span></p>
<p>First, let me say that we replaced the dead car with a more expensive car, at $8,990 plus tax, title, etc. The loan ended up at $10,589. However, we got a 2008 automobile that still has warranty, and we’ve agreed that our goal is to make this car last 10 years, so we can get it paid off in 5 years (if it takes that long, and it might) and have 5 more years to save for another car.</p>
<p>Several things about this purchase bothered me though, and the main one was my husband’s inability to separate out the fact that affording payments does not mean you can afford the loan.</p>
<p>The thing is, when you have a spouse who believes you’re able to afford something just because you can make the payment, you really have to watch out when you start paying off debt.</p>
<p>As one payment falls to the debt snowball, I worry that my husband will want to buy something else to take its place. (History shows a track record for this and I’m not one to argue with history.)</p>
<p>I’m sure I’m not the only person trying to deal with a somewhat uncooperative spouse who just doesn’t seem to get it.</p>
<p>I’ve discovered that there might be a way around the fighting and worrying. It’s less like a row of falling dominoes and more like the collapse of a house of cards, but it just might work.</p>
<p>Don’t pay off your smallest debt first. <strong>Pay off the debt with the longest term first</strong> (with the possible exception of your home loan, depending on how much benefit you see from the tax-deductible interest).</p>
<p>By choosing to pay off the debt with the longest term, you eliminate the worry that freed up cash will be diverted from your debt snowball and used to make another payment for something your spouse wants to buy.</p>
<p>Without true cooperation from your spouse, it’s unlikely you’ll ever be truly debt free, but that doesn’t mean you can’t try. I certainly intend to do my best at it!</p>
<p>In the future, I will be able to spend less time worrying about what will happen when we get some of our debts paid off and we have cash available to make bigger extra payments.</p>
<p>Until now, my strategy has been to pay off some relatively short-term debts that should be paid off within the next year or so. However, I’m already hearing rumblings from my husband about that boat he wants to upgrade to—and how wonderful it would be if we had just a little extra money so he could make the payments.</p>
<p>Since I have no intention of letting this happen (if he really wants it, he’ll have to find a way to start saving for it!), I have begun to rethink my debt payoff strategy.</p>
<p>My camper has a higher interest rate than many of my other debts and a relatively low payment (about 1.1% of the principal). I intend to start putting any extra payments I can make toward it, instead of the other shorter-term, higher payment credit card (about 2% of the balance).</p>
<p>This way, I stop the “we have enough for a new payment” problem before it even becomes a problem.</p>
<p>Unlike with a traditional debt snowball, where you use freed up cash to pay extra on other debts in a rollover fashion, where your debts begin to fall like dominoes, this method will pay off your debts with the shortest terms on their regular schedule. This means that you’ll see more debts fall at about the same time.</p>
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<tr>
<th width="200" valign="top">Debt</th>
<th width="200" valign="top">Payments Left</th>
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<tr>
<td width="200" valign="top">Car</td>
<td width="200" valign="top">60 Months</td>
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<tr>
<td width="200" valign="top">Truck</td>
<td width="200" valign="top">42 Months</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="200" valign="top">Student Loan</td>
<td width="200" valign="top">108 Months</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="200" valign="top">Amex</td>
<td width="200" valign="top">50 Months (not counting interest)</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="200" valign="top">Home</td>
<td width="200" valign="top">300 Months</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td width="200" valign="top">Camper</td>
<td width="200" valign="top">128 Months</td>
</tr>
</tbody>
</table>
<p>Basically, I can put off the obvious freeing up of cash by saving on future interest, reducing the term of the debt by paying more principal each month, and having several debts paid off at around the same time frame. Paying extra on the camper loan should allow me to knock down 4 loans at about the same time.</p>
<p>I also believe this will give my husband the encouragement to save that he needs when we finally have free cash, because he will be able to “see” how possible it will be to save for a large purchase when we have so much cash freed up.</p>
<p>That’s the plan, anyway.</p>
<p>This might reduce the motivational boost I would get from paying off smaller debts faster, but it just might get me significantly closer to my goal of paying off as much debt as possible without having to worry about my husband eyeing the extra cash!</p>
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		<title>Are rewards for successfully paying down debt a good idea?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rewards might be a necessary and deserved part of any debt reduction plan.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am rewarding myself today, for sticking to my budget and paying the budgeted extra on my debt this month. I bought a camera because my old one broke when I unintentionally knocked it to the floor. I’m also going out to eat with a friend today before we go walking in the local park (with the kids in tow).</p>
<p>Today, I feel good about the decision, but last night, I really struggled.</p>
<p>My problem is in defining at what point I should stop throwing every extra cent I have at my debt so that I can live a reasonably balanced life, buying what I need and occasionally, what I want.</p>
<p>Yes, you could take your lunch to work every day and save a ton of money. But <em>do you have to</em>, just because you’ve decided to live a cash based life and get completely out of debt?</p>
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<p>Should you feel guilty if you buy lunch with cash that you could have spent on paying down debt?</p>
<p>If you broke your camera and needed a replacement, should you not buy the camera because you could use that money to reduce your debt even further?</p>
<p>Besides, can’t one consider a family camera a necessity these days? If you want photographs of your family, you’re not going to find them cheaper at a photographers studio than those you’ve taken on your own!</p>
<p>Last night I finally decided that there are limits to my dedication. I want to pay as much as possible on my debts, but only after deciding on a reasonable amount to reserve for family use. </p>
<p>These “rewards” for staying within budget and paying down debt at the predetermined rate I’ve set are deserved and necessary to my future momentum.</p>
<p>Deserved because I am dedicated, but I don’t know if I can sacrifice all the joys that come with living within a fixed budget and knowing you have some extra money to play with every so often. </p>
<p>Necessary because if I continue to adjust my debt payments every time I have a few extra dollars, I worry that I’ll burn myself out of never spending any of that extra money on things that can make life a little easier or more enjoyable now.</p>
<p><a title="The camera I bought from Amazon" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001PKTR94?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=afinancialjourney-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001PKTR94" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 5px 10px 5px 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="samsung-sl30" border="0" alt="samsung-sl30" align="left" src="http://www.afinancialjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/samsungsl30.jpg" width="115" height="137" /></a> This month, I spent $99.99 on a camera, and reserved $75 for the family and extra entertainment this month. (I include dining out in that category also.) As for debts, I chose to pay my normal debt payments, which is the budgeted amount I previously set for paying down my debts.</p>
<p>So, ultimately, I decided to stick with my budget and use my extra money for other things, because if I had been outside my budget this month, I would not have had this extra money.</p>
<p>What about you? Do you think I made the right decision? Do rewards help or hurt your progress to get debt free and live a cash life?</p>
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		<title>Common sense living: Refuse to pay what you don’t owe</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Keep your eye out for charges you shouldn't be paying and then act immediately to get them refunded.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vigilance pays off.</p>
<p>Saturday morning my husband went to return a boat battery to Wal-mart because after only three uses, the battery wouldn’t hold a charge.</p>
<p>The clerk gladly refunded his money so he could exchange the battery for a new battery, but told my husband that there would be a core charge for the new battery.</p>
<p>My husband didn’t think anything of it, except to tell me (by cell phone) that he would need to find an old battery to turn in so he could get his $9.00 core charge back.</p>
<p>A $9.00 core charge on a replacement for a defective battery?</p>
<p>I don’t think so.<span id="more-123"></span></p>
<p>I asked him for the phone number of the store and told him I would be calling and that he didn’t need to leave the store until after he heard back from me.</p>
<p>Of course, I was hoping it was a mistake, because it made no sense to my why we would be responsible for a core charge on a replacement for a defective battery!</p>
<p>I was nice, but firm when I talked to customer service, and yes, the customer service manager admitted it was an error that my husband had been asked to pay a core charge and that they would refund the $9.00 as soon as my husband returned to the customer service register.</p>
<p>Needless to say, this would have cost us $9.00 if I hadn’t been been aggressive with my husband. He would have left the store without the money and then had to return later with a battery he might or might not have been able to find in order to get the core charge refunded to him.</p>
<p>He didn’t mind that I wanted to call about the issue, but he also didn’t think it was that big of a deal that he’d been charged a core charge.</p>
<p>But I’m thinking, $9.00, for something we didn’t owe! That’s enough to pay for a movie ticket, 3 car washes, or 1 1/2 month’s service of Netflix.</p>
<p>Ultimately, that’s why it’s so important to watch for and react to these kinds of charges. Blindly accepting them lowers your standard of living by taking money out of your pocket, in a time when you might be fighting to make every dollar count.</p>
<p>Vigilance pays off. Keep your eyes open for charges that don’t make sense and pursue the matter when you see them.</p>
<p>That said, here are some tips I’ve used over the years to help me deal with these kinds of problems.</p>
<h2>How to get a refund for a charge you don’t owe</h2>
<p><strong>1. Call or visit right away.</strong> Be firm when talking to representatives, but never rude. You want to be taken seriously and to have your complaint addressed by someone who isn’t offended by something you’ve said.</p>
<p><strong>2. Be specific.</strong> Tell the person what you want them to do about your problem. Sometimes it’s just that they haven’t thought of the possible solution you’d like them to think of.</p>
<p><em>Useful phrases:</em></p>
<ul>
<li>Please explain why I was charged…</li>
<li>I have a problem I would like you to take care of for me…</li>
<li>I’d like a refund or credit for this charge today… (or, before I leave…, by tomorrow…)</li>
<li>I would appreciate it if you could solve my problem today</li>
</ul>
<p>Polite phrases are more powerful than insults and threats.</p>
<p>4. Thank the person helping you even before they’ve helped you—this can sometimes create a feeling of obligation on the part of the “helper.”</p>
<p><em>Useful phrases:</em></p>
<ul>
<li>I appreciate you looking into this for me… Here’s what I think happened… and I shouldn’t have been charged because…</li>
<li>Thank you for taking the time to research this… My records show… What do your records show…?</li>
</ul>
<p>These steps are the steps I always try to follow when I file a complaint or ask for help with a problem, and they usually work for me.</p>
<p>Have you ever had to deal with a situation like this? What’s worked for you?</p>
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		<title>Tough choices: Pay down debt or save for emergencies?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:48:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What's more important, paying down debt or saving for emergencies? Will the answer be the same for everyone?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting and staying debt free is full of tough choices. Should you stay in and eat alone (and save money) or eat out with friends (and go into debt)? Buy birthday gifts for your friends (go into debt) or explain why you can’t give gifts this year (and save money)?</p>
<p>No matter what decision you ultimately make, you’ve had to make a tough choice.</p>
<p>These are actually quite minor choices when compared to the choice I’m talking about today.</p>
<p>I’ve been struggling with the problem of how to decide what’s most important to me and my family: pay down debt or save for emergencies.<span id="more-108"></span></p>
<p>I realize how important it is to have a substantial emergency fund to tide you over when you’re trying to get out of debt. But I want to make the most financially beneficial decision I can make for my family, and one pat answer doesn’t seem to fit all situations.</p>
<p>Assuming you’re disciplined enough to follow through on any particular plan you make, you have options other than the standard idea of saving up $1,000 before you start paying off debt (Dave Ramsey&#8217;s famous “baby step 1”).</p>
<p>Assuming you have $1,000 of credit available for use in an emergency, and assuming your interest rates on the cards where you’re carrying a balance are on the high side, you can save plenty of interest by paying off debt before you start saving up an emergency fund.</p>
<h2>However, that said, there are some things to take into consideration.</h2>
<h3>1. A cash emergency fund can be used in situations where credit might not.</h3>
<p>Say you need to rush your dog to the veterinarian after he’s hit by a car. Your local vet is cheaper and closer, but he doesn’t take credit. A cash emergency fund might be the thing that gets your dog the care he needs for a price you won’t mind paying in the long term. This situation might be a stretch, but then again, I live in a rural area and I know several vets who don’t take credit cards and who need to be paid when services are rendered. The closest “big” city is an hour away.</p>
<p>The way I’ve found to get around this is to make use of the cash I have put aside for my budgeted irregular expenses. Although this cash is technically already assigned a task, in a pinch, it gives me cash reserves to tap into in the event of an emergency where only cash will do.</p>
<h3>2. If you can’t repay the emergency expenditure quickly, your emergency will end up costing you interest, which you could have been paying toward your debt.</h3>
<p>In simple terms, if you save up an emergency fund in an account that compounds daily at a 1% annual interest rate instead of paying on a debt that compounds daily at a reasonable 7% annual interest rate, you’ve lost 6% of your money to interest payments.</p>
<p>However, if you then have to charge something on a credit card because of a true emergency and it takes you 6 months to repay the money, your emergency has cost you 3.5% more than it would have if you’d paid cash.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what it looks like in dollars, roughly.</p>
<p>$1000 in the bank + $10 interest earned if you save a cash emergency fund</p>
<p>$1000 less debt + $70 interest saved if you pay debt first</p>
<p>$1000 debt + $35 interest paid if you have an emergency that would have used all your emergency funds and you’re able to repay within 6 months. If it takes you 12 months, you’ll pay $70 interest.</p>
<p>However, if you don’t have a card with a relatively low interest rate, there’s another possible downside. The interest paid on a card with a relatively high rate could be damagingly high.</p>
<p>You could get into a cycle of debt that takes many more months to pay off than you might ever have saved by paying debt before saving for emergencies.</p>
<p>If you pay late, you could be subject to high penalties, usually starting around $39, and your interest rate could jump even higher.</p>
<h2>Net savings by choosing to pay off debt instead of saving for emergencies</h2>
<p>Here’s a summary of the financial impact of one choice over the other.</p>
<h3>Best case</h3>
<p>The best case assumes you have no emergencies while you’re paying off your debt.</p>
<p><em>Pay off debt:</em> Net worth up by $1,070</p>
<p><em>Save for emergencies:</em> Net worth up by $1,010</p>
<h3>Worst case</h3>
<p>The worst case assumes you have an emergency that uses your entire &#8220;fund&#8221; and that you take 12 months to repay your emergency charge.</p>
<p><em>Pay off debt:</em> Net worth down by $70</p>
<p><em>Save for emergencies:</em> Net worth up by $10</p>
<h3>Somewhere in the middle</h3>
<p>Somewhere in the middle assumes you take 6 months to pay off your emergency charge.</p>
<p><em>Pay off debt:</em> Net worth down by $35</p>
<p><em>Save for emergencies:</em> Net worth up by $10</p>
<h2>My decision</h2>
<p>All that said, I made my decision not long after I’d decided to pay off my debt as quickly as possible. I chose to put as much of my discretionary funds toward paying off debt as soon as possible. My irregular expenses savings remains my only cash reserves at the moment, and although I rethink the issue every month or so, just to be sure nothing’s changed that might impact my decision, I believe I’ve made the right choice for me for the time being.</p>
<p>Truly, it’s somewhat of a gamble, but the payoff of getting out of debt sooner than I would have otherwise seems worth the risk to me.</p>
<p>Have you had to make a similar decision? What did you decide? Comments or questions are always welcome.</p>
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		<title>Meltdown of common sense living</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 18:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fundamental problems with today's society and government.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m angry. I just spent the last few minutes watching more depressing news about the idiots in Washington. Spend, spend, spend. Apparently consumer spending is down and so financial experts are wondering if the government is going to have to spend even more money to keep the finances of the United States from falling apart. I&#8217;m sure glad someone knows how to throw money at a problem and make it go away.</p>
<p>Many of us have realized the necessity of paying down our debt, cutting out excessive spending&#8211;some of us are even trimming unnecessary spending (voluntarily or otherwise). We&#8217;re doing this because <em>reality has caught up with us</em>.</p>
<p>They want to save us, and that&#8217;s a nice sentiment—but we&#8217;re in a burning building and they&#8217;re drowning us in debt in their effort to put out the fire with spending!</p>
<p>Why can&#8217;t they see that they&#8217;re not helping us? I don&#8217;t believe we&#8217;ll ever get to a stable economy or reach any kind of equilibrium as long as the government is trying to take over the role of individuals as consumer, spending money we don&#8217;t have.<span id="more-95"></span></p>
<p>The problem I see is that we, as citizen&#8217;s of the United States, haven&#8217;t forced the government to make the kinds of cuts businesses and individuals are being forced to make. <em>Layoff? Pay reductions?</em> <strong>Not the federal government!</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m an independent voter, but I tend to like more democrats than republicans. I&#8217;ve voted democratic in every presidential election so far, but I always mix it up when it comes to state and local politics. But&#8211;I&#8217;m not a fan of big government no matter who&#8217;s in charge.</p>
<p>Just the other day I was watching a news program and heard that most federal employees are being paid more than double that of someone working in the private sector for the same job. I wish I could find a link to an article about this, but I couldn&#8217;t dig one up.  Regardless of the truth of that statement, I think government needs to shrink, and shrink big!</p>
<p>Stupidity multiplied is doom to the nth power.</p>
<p><strong>Here are some of what I believe are fundamental problems with current society and government:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Too many laws</li>
<li>Too many loopholes in those laws</li>
<li>Too many lines in the tax code</li>
<li>Too many federal employees who make too much money versus comparable non-government jobs</li>
<li>Too many frivolous lawsuits are allowed into the judicial system</li>
<li>Too much influence for lobbyists and special interest groups</li>
<li>Too many elected officials run for office only to get their own agendas passed (whether or not it&#8217;s in the best interest of the voting public)</li>
<li>Too many people think debt shouldn&#8217;t have to be paid back just because &#8220;lender&#8217;s are evil&#8221; (Signed contract despite iffy terms&#8211;stupid individual. I&#8217;ve fallen into this category enough times to be embarrassed to admit it. When you want something bad enough, you&#8217;re willing to sell your soul to get it, but later &#8220;the lender did it to me.&#8221; I&#8217;m not always as hard-line about this as it sounds. When a lender verbally promises one thing and a contract says another, they should be held responsible and the debtee should be given the best deal of the two&#8211;verbal agreements should be as binding as paper agreements&#8211;but this is from someone who actually thinks meaning what you say is fundamental to your honor and integrity.)</li>
<li>Too few people mean what they say</li>
<li>Too few people honor their agreements if it hurts them to do so</li>
<li>Too few people value honor and integrity</li>
<li>Too few people think of anyone else before themselves</li>
</ul>
<p>I could go on and on, but I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m boring you. This is one of those posts I just felt I had to write, and I hope it&#8217;s given you something to think about. Feel free to leave comments or questions.</p>
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		<title>How to take a real vacation on a tight budget</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 15:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Budget]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Allie tells how she budgeted and saved on her vacation&#8212;and how you can replicate her success.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Allie is a close friend of mine who has also embraced the idea that now is the perfect time to get out of debt, let go of old spending habits, and start fresh with a cash-based life. She recently took a vacation, and this is her story of budgeting and saving success in an area where it&#8217;s often hard to impossible to keep spending under control.</p></blockquote>
<h2>Allie&#8217;s story</h2>
<h3>My Vacation</h3>
<p>So it took some doing, but I was finally able to brow beat my husband into a mini-vacation during Spring Break.  The kids were free.  The husband had some vacation to burn.  But really, we didn&#8217;t want to push too much into the short time we had.  That&#8217;s why we went to the old standby&#8230;Gatlinburg, TN.</p>
<p>When I was discussing with Kate that my goal was to pay cash for as much of the vacation as possible, and that I&#8217;d found such a great deal online, she asked me to guest blog about it.  So here&#8217;s what we did.<span id="more-90"></span></p>
<p>First, we set a budget.  We hoped not to spend more than $500 for the total trip (approximately four days and three nights). The total budget had to include the hotel, entertainment, food, fuel, and souvenirs.</p>
<p>The next thing we did was make a wish list of places to go and see while there.  We knew the primary place we wanted to take the kids was to the Ripley&#8217;s Aquarium.  We also wanted to take them to the Dixie Stampede dinner show, but really didn&#8217;t know if that was in the budget this time around.  But since this was a &#8220;wish&#8221; list we put it on there.  And basically those were our two primary entertainment costs.  The other places were all about nature—and free.</p>
<p>With the money and wish list in mind, I searched online for any deals or coupons that would save money.  Now I want to note here that there are a lot (and I mean A LOT) of places online that <em>say</em> they have good deals.  But don&#8217;t be fooled.  There are tons of vacation destination places that will take your money.  I&#8217;ve heard horror stories of this happening.  Or they&#8217;ll give you that special rate if only you&#8217;ll take a half or whole day of your vacation listening to some spiel about a condo.</p>
<p>Being very aware of this, I started with the city&#8217;s main site and worked my way around to the sites for the two places on the wish list (Ripley&#8217;s Aquarium and the Dixie Stampede).  Now Ripley&#8217;s had some pretty nice deals if you were interested in doing more than one of their activities (Ripley&#8217;s Believe It Or Not or the Ripley&#8217;s Motion Theater).  But with one child barely two, that wasn&#8217;t an option.  [Special note here...don't forget to check restrictions on age, weight, height, etc. before buying tickets in advance!]</p>
<p>Not finding what I was looking for, I went on to the Dixie Stampede&#8217;s site.  And there it was.  I found a link on the combo deals page that led me to the Greystone Lodge at the Aquarium&#8217;s website.  They had a super special going on through April 31st that gave you two nights stay and tickets to Ripley&#8217;s Aquarium for $101.00.  It was definitely the best deal I&#8217;d found, so I called the hotel and had a wonderful lady help me work out our best deal.</p>
<p>We were able to book two nights at $30.00 per night and add an additional night for $30.00 more.  Plus, we were able to get four tickets to Ripley&#8217;s Aquarium and three tickets (as my daughter is too small to have her own seat) to the Dixie Stampede.  All of this, plus tax, only came to $234.00!  It was awesome!</p>
<p>That left us over $250.00 for fuel, eating out and souvenirs.</p>
<p>The room and entertainment taken care of I went in search of coupons for restaurants we like to eat at, and I went to the grocery store for snacks, drinks and sandwich fixings for the trip.  The hotel had breakfast covered, so I knew I only had to deal with lunch and dinner.  We were going to be there four days and three nights, so here&#8217;s what we did.</p>
<h3>Day 1</h3>
<p>We took our time on the trip up—starting out just after having a big breakfast at home—and stopped off in Knoxville at a little drive-in we&#8217;d seen on a Food Network show.  We ordered one chicken strip dinner and one order of onion rings.  We ate so bad, but it was so good.  And those two items were enough to feed all four of us lunch.  Did I mention we aren&#8217;t really big eaters?</p>
<p>Now I don&#8217;t know about your husband, but mine can&#8217;t let the opportunity to visit the Bass Pro Shops big store in Sevierville pass him by.  He had to stop.  Very fortunately, the sales weren&#8217;t all that good and we made it out with only a pair of sunglasses for him. :-)</p>
<p>Then on to the hotel.  After settling in, we decided to eat a good dinner.  My son wanted shrimp and ribs.  That left us with a few options, so we settled on Ruby Tuesdays which gave us more options and was less costly than one of the more specialized restaurants.</p>
<h3>Day 2</h3>
<p>We ate breakfast at the hotel, and headed out.  We&#8217;d decided to break up our outings and not overtire the kids, so today would be a trip to the <a title="Roaring Fork Motor Trail website" href="http://www.nps.gov/grsm/planyourvisit/roaringfork.htm" target="_blank">Roaring Fork Motor Trail</a>, a little hike through the streets of Gatlinburg, and then on to the Dixie Stampede that evening.  So we took our cooler and headed out on the trail.  We had a picnic lunch, and then ate the wonderfully pedestrian fare the Stampede had to offer that evening.  The largest cost this day was fuel.  We&#8217;d forgotten to fill up before heading back to the hotel the evening before, so we ended up paying a bit more than we&#8217;d have liked.  The good news is that this fill up lasted us all the way home in my very economical Kia Sorento.</p>
<h3>Day 3</h3>
<p>Again we ate breakfast at the hotel, and then headed out to the Aquarium.  This would be our most costly day and we knew it.  We&#8217;d planned accordingly, saving the bulk of our food and souvenir monies for today.  We spent our time in the Aquarium wisely.  We looked over every nook and cranny.  We also took in with us snacks and drinks for the kids.  This is one of the few places that I&#8217;ve found doesn&#8217;t mind if you bring in food.  By the end of our wondrous journey, however, everyone was starving.  So after picking out a couple of &#8220;clearanced&#8221; t-shirts for the kids and a couple of stuffed sharks, we headed further into Gatlinburg.  We decided to eat at the <a title="Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. website" href="http://www.bubbagump.com/menu.html" target="_blank">Bubba Gump Shrimp Co.</a>.  The price was a bit high, but they had chicken and fries for the kids as well as shrimp for us and we were able to order one kids meal (for the little one and me) and one shrimp sampler plus (for hubby and oldest kid) and a side salad (for me) to share.  I admit I did try the shrimp and would have probably been tempted to eat more than my fair share, but I didn&#8217;t want to over do so late in the afternoon knowing we planned to go to Pigeon Forge shopping.</p>
<p>And we did.  We did a little shopping at the outlets, being careful not to overspend.  And then we ended up at O&#8217;Charley&#8217;s.  We had a coupon for $5.00 off $20.00 and with some careful planning we were able to get out of the restaurant very satisfied with a bill of less than $20.00 for all four of us.</p>
<h3>Day 4</h3>
<p>Our last day was sad.  We hated to leave the relaxing fun we&#8217;d had together, but on the other hand we were very glad to be headed home.  We grabbed our breakfast at the hotel, and loaded up.  We still had a few snacks, so we opted not to stop for lunch until we were near Knoxville.  We also knew we needed to stop by a Wal-Mart to look for a bat, but that&#8217;s another story&#8230;  We chose to eat lunch at the Turkey Creek Steak N&#8217; Shake.  The cost was less than $20.00 for all four of us.</p>
<h3>Epilogue</h3>
<p>When our trip was over, we felt good about it.  We hadn&#8217;t overspent and we didn&#8217;t have to worry about paying off the trip later.  It was paid for.  And we&#8217;d enjoyed ourselves without the worry and stress that could have come afterward.  I&#8217;d definitely recommend trying it sometime. —Allie</p>
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