Although I would love to put all my money at my debt, and I know my savings would grow faster if I didn’t have that debt, for the moment, we are putting money into savings every month. I am still managing to pay extra toward my Amex card, but the economy has made me realize just how important savings are to a comprehensive personal money management plan.

If we don’t have money to save, we are clearly not living within our means, so we have taken steps to correct that.

I try not to worry too much about my finances, because at the moment, I am doing all that I can reasonably do to improve them. I am working extra to earn enough to be able to both save and pay extra money monthly toward debts. I am spending less, which I achieved by cutting my satellite TV service in favor of the more economical Netflix subscription and an antenna. I am working to build up a side business to bring in even more money to help me pay off debts. Finally, I have not incurred any new debt since June of last year and my current plan doesn’t allow for any new debt ever.

Paying off debt is my most important financial goal, but I’m not going to do it to the detriment of my financial safety net. I do worry that if something unfortunate happens with our finances, we could see ourselves losing all the progress we’ve gained.

Money is tight right now and I want to have some money put back in case things take a turn for the worse. Hope for the best, be prepared for the worst is a saying that seems to be resonating with me right now. So that’s what I’m doing.

I said the following at one point here on the site, and it turned out to be so true. Although my rates haven’t changed, more than one of my friend’s credit cards had favorable rates that were supposedly "locked in" and which subsequently jumped nearly 20%. Therefore, despite the lower interest rate, American Express remains the focus of my debt payoff plan. Once it is gone, I will start work on another debt. (Which will either be my RV or my home.)

The thing is, I would like to pay off the camper before the American Express bill because the interest rate is so much more favorable. However, with the current state of the economy and the ever-changing nature of credit card agreements, I worry that my American Express credit card terms will change drastically and unexpectedly and I’ll lose that lovely 3.99% interest rate until the balance is paid off….

I have friends who are dealing with unscrupulous credit card companies right now and I have little faith in them myself these days. My biggest fear is that before the new credit card agreement rules go into effect later in the year, many credit card companies might try to take advantage of as many loopholes in the credit card agreements as possible to keep from having customers locked in with very favorable terms long-term.

After having my husband’s car die a horrible death a couple of weeks ago and having to buy another one (because my husband is/was positive this car could not be fixed for less than it would cost to buy another car) it occurred to me that I might just be going about my debt snowball all wrong.

First, let me say that we replaced the dead car with a more expensive car, at $8,990 plus tax, title, etc. The loan ended up at $10,589. However, we got a 2008 automobile that still has warranty, and we’ve agreed that our goal is to make this car last 10 years, so we can get it paid off in 5 years (if it takes that long, and it might) and have 5 more years to save for another car.

Several things about this purchase bothered me though, and the main one was my husband’s inability to separate out the fact that affording payments does not mean you can afford the loan.

The thing is, when you have a spouse who believes you’re able to afford something just because you can make the payment, you really have to watch out when you start paying off debt.

As one payment falls to the debt snowball, I worry that my husband will want to buy something else to take its place. (History shows a track record for this and I’m not one to argue with history.)

I’m sure I’m not the only person trying to deal with a somewhat uncooperative spouse who just doesn’t seem to get it.

I’ve discovered that there might be a way around the fighting and worrying. It’s less like a row of falling dominoes and more like the collapse of a house of cards, but it just might work.

Don’t pay off your smallest debt first. Pay off the debt with the longest term first (with the possible exception of your home loan, depending on how much benefit you see from the tax-deductible interest).

By choosing to pay off the debt with the longest term, you eliminate the worry that freed up cash will be diverted from your debt snowball and used to make another payment for something your spouse wants to buy.

Without true cooperation from your spouse, it’s unlikely you’ll ever be truly debt free, but that doesn’t mean you can’t try. I certainly intend to do my best at it!

In the future, I will be able to spend less time worrying about what will happen when we get some of our debts paid off and we have cash available to make bigger extra payments.

Until now, my strategy has been to pay off some relatively short-term debts that should be paid off within the next year or so. However, I’m already hearing rumblings from my husband about that boat he wants to upgrade to—and how wonderful it would be if we had just a little extra money so he could make the payments.

Since I have no intention of letting this happen (if he really wants it, he’ll have to find a way to start saving for it!), I have begun to rethink my debt payoff strategy.

My camper has a higher interest rate than many of my other debts and a relatively low payment (about 1.1% of the principal). I intend to start putting any extra payments I can make toward it, instead of the other shorter-term, higher payment credit card (about 2% of the balance).

This way, I stop the “we have enough for a new payment” problem before it even becomes a problem.

Unlike with a traditional debt snowball, where you use freed up cash to pay extra on other debts in a rollover fashion, where your debts begin to fall like dominoes, this method will pay off your debts with the shortest terms on their regular schedule. This means that you’ll see more debts fall at about the same time.

Basically, I can put off the obvious freeing up of cash by saving on future interest, reducing the term of the debt by paying more principal each month, and having several debts paid off at around the same time frame. Paying extra on the camper loan should allow me to knock down 4 loans at about the same time.

I also believe this will give my husband the encouragement to save that he needs when we finally have free cash, because he will be able to “see” how possible it will be to save for a large purchase when we have so much cash freed up.

That’s the plan, anyway.

This might reduce the motivational boost I would get from paying off smaller debts faster, but it just might get me significantly closer to my goal of paying off as much debt as possible without having to worry about my husband eyeing the extra cash!

Today, I feel good about the decision, but last night, I really struggled.

My problem is in defining at what point I should stop throwing every extra cent I have at my debt so that I can live a reasonably balanced life, buying what I need and occasionally, what I want.

Yes, you could take your lunch to work every day and save a ton of money. But do you have to, just because you’ve decided to live a cash based life and get completely out of debt?

Should you feel guilty if you buy lunch with cash that you could have spent on paying down debt?

If you broke your camera and needed a replacement, should you not buy the camera because you could use that money to reduce your debt even further?

Besides, can’t one consider a family camera a necessity these days? If you want photographs of your family, you’re not going to find them cheaper at a photographers studio than those you’ve taken on your own!

Last night I finally decided that there are limits to my dedication. I want to pay as much as possible on my debts, but only after deciding on a reasonable amount to reserve for family use.

These “rewards” for staying within budget and paying down debt at the predetermined rate I’ve set are deserved and necessary to my future momentum.

Deserved because I am dedicated, but I don’t know if I can sacrifice all the joys that come with living within a fixed budget and knowing you have some extra money to play with every so often.

Necessary because if I continue to adjust my debt payments every time I have a few extra dollars, I worry that I’ll burn myself out of never spending any of that extra money on things that can make life a little easier or more enjoyable now.

This month, I spent $99.99 on a camera, and reserved $75 for the family and extra entertainment this month. (I include dining out in that category also.) As for debts, I chose to pay my normal debt payments, which is the budgeted amount I previously set for paying down my debts.

So, ultimately, I decided to stick with my budget and use my extra money for other things, because if I had been outside my budget this month, I would not have had this extra money.

What about you? Do you think I made the right decision? Do rewards help or hurt your progress to get debt free and live a cash life?

Here are the highlights

1. Spent too much at Christmas and used my Discover card which I intended to pay off in full. I’ll still be able to do that, but it took some serious finagling and a stroke to luck.
2. Intended to refinance my home loan to take advantage of lower interest rates and get 10,000 cash out to pay for a truck we need.
3. Refinanced home loan but got no cash out.
4. Put the family truck up for sale because it can’t haul my RV camper long distances.
5. Prepared tax return so I would know what, if any, cash I could expect to get refunded.
6. Looking for a truck and a way to pay for it that won’t put me back in debt up to my eyeballs.

Christmas spending

I knew going into the holidays that I didn’t have enough money saved up for Christmas. I intended to cut way back on my spending this year, but when the numbers came in on my Discover card, it was clear that my spending hadn’t decreased at all. If anything, it went up. Take that on top of the $389+ I had just put on there for my refrigerator repair and my bill seemed overwhelming.

When I paid the first statement, I paid it in increments throughout the month until the full statement amount had been paid. I took the $389 from savings and the rest from my bonus and some overtime my husband worked. The dates crossed over onto two statements thank goodness, splitting the amount owed into two payments that wouldn’t cost me any interest since I wouldn’t be carrying a balance from one statement to the next. That left the next statement, which still came in at $1,118. Eeik!

So, lesson learned? Cash, cash, cash. I should have carried cash and stopped spending when I hit zero.

I’ve already talked to my husband and he agrees that this is what we’re going to do next year. We’ve also added $50 a month to our savings so we have the money when the time comes. That’s approximately $11.60 per week and we think we can handle that okay.

Refinanced home loan to save money

Our original plans when we started talking about the refinancing of our home loan was a simple re-fi to cut our interest rate. Then my husband started talking truck. Now, I understand the need for the truck. The truck we have won’t pull the camper more than a twenty or thirty miles before it starts acting up. It’s a 1994 model and it doesn’t have the power needed to handle the weight of the camper. I want to take some trips this year to some campgrounds that are farther from home. I mean, we bought the camper; we’re paying for it, and I want to use it.

But the numbers didn’t make sense and we had to sacrifice the dream of having a few extra dollars on our house payment and no other payments and a newer used truck.

The refinance of the principal only incurred no fees (at our local small-town bank) and our interest rate went from 7% to 5.75%. Before you mention that I could have gotten a better rate somewhere else, you might be right, but we’ve never had to have an appraisal and we paid $0 in fees.  This is just a 2 year balloon based on our original construction loan. We won’t qualify to get a traditional mortgage with all the associated fees and hassles until we finish our master bathroom’s shower and some additional work on our staircase. I like having my loan at my local small-town bank and will probably keep it there for as long as possible.

The refinance to get cash back, however, was a different story. The rocky economy has made even my small-town bank nervous. To get the $10,000 cash out, we would have had to get an appraisal and pay fees and it would have cost about $1,500 total. Not worth it in any universe. I want to reduce my debt not add to it, if that’s at all possible!

Finally, my lender asked if I wanted my first payment due in January or February. I said February. And just like that, I had the money to pay my Discover card. :-)

Buying a truck

Okay, so I’m not sure how this fits with my determination to get debt free forever, but here you have it. We need a truck. We’re going to buy used, and since my husband is handy with the autos, we’re hoping to get the best deal possible. But that still means $6,000 to $8,000 we need to come up with.

$500  – Tax refund

$1,000 – Bonus (fingers crossed for more!)

$2,400 – Truck we’re selling (if we get within a few hundred of our asking price)

$145 – Difference in old house payment and new house payment

Finally, we’re going to get rid of our third car. At the moment we have two small cars. One, my husband drives to work (80 mile commute, 5 days, 34 mpg) and one, I drive (112 mile commute, 2 days, 34 mpg — BUT I get reimbursed for gas based on actual cost). Two days a week, I’ll drive the truck to work. My husband will start driving my car, since we’re going to sell his. We should come out with no changes to our gas budget, since my car is the family car and will remain the vehicle of choice for weekend and evening driving.

So, that gives me the last bit of money we need to pay for the truck.

$2,000 – Car we’re selling

Closer than ever to living debt-free

Despite all that’s happened in the last few months, I feel closer than ever to living debt-free.

Going forward, that $145 difference in our house payment is going to go toward one of my current debts (see my NetworthIQ for details of my debts). I’m excited. Once we have this truck, we’ll have everything in place to start moving forward, and barring any emergencies that we aren’t yet financially prepared for, we’ll have time to start saving now for future purchases.

Back in the spring, I bought a couch. I’d like to claim I paid cash for it, but I can’t. I needed a couch quickly and I took the easy way out. I bought the couch on credit.

I did have sense enough to find a store running a “no interest until June 2009″ deal, so I haven’t paid any interest on the couch. However, the special “no payments” part of the deal almost caught me… I put off starting my monthly payments when I should have, and I’ve ended up having to pay higher monthly amounts to get me to paid off before the “no interest, no payments” period runs out.

I’ll make it in just under the wire. I owe $409.13 and have been paying regularly these days. My hope is to have a little extra left over from Christmas bonuses to pay it down faster (if I even get one with all the financial crises going on right now).

My plan is to take that $50 monthly amount I’m paying and put it toward my car payment. This will effectively start my debt snowball.

Technically, spring is probably when my debt payments are first going to snowball, but I’m thinking of it as having already started. I’ve packing my snowball and I’m getting ready to let it loose down the hill. As soon as that first payment is applied to something else, it will have officially begun to pick up speed.

I have my list of debts, in the order I want to pay them off.

Although many experts suggest either paying off higher interest debts first or debts with the lowest payments, I’ve come up with my own schedule, for my own reasons. For this to be successful, that’s what we all have to do—find something that works for each of us, giving us the most motivation. If you find that you’re more motivated by the thought of saving money you would have ended up paying as interest, by all means, you would want to list your debts in order of highest interest rate to lowest.

My choice of debt payoff order

1. JCPenney (couch) – 0% interest, but raises dramatically if the debt goes past a certain date
2. Auto Loan – 6.9%
3. Camper – 8.25%
4. American Express – 3.9%
5. Student Loan – 3.25%

I chose this schedule because it will get the snowball going the fastest. I already feel tons of motivation at the idea of paying off my car and knowing that payment amount will go toward paying off the camper. It’s exciting to dream about the day when I can actually make it happen.

Do you have a debt payoff schedule? How did you chose to rank your debts? I would love to know.

If you want to see my Net Worth just look to the right hand column for the NetworthIQ box. It sums up all my debt and assets.

What is net worth?

Net worth is the difference between what you have and what you owe. Doesn’t matter if it’s money or some other thing. I’ll admit, I’m simplifying enormously here, but for the purposes of this blog, that simplification is more than adequate. If you want to get technical, net worth is your total assets minus your total liabilities, and it’s a value determined at a specific point in time. Today’s net worth isn’t likely to be the same as tomorrow’s net worth or next week’s.

Real progress is in the details

Net worth isn’t my preferred way to keep an eye on my financial health. It might be okay for someone who needs to be heavily leveraged to generate income, but with my goal of becoming debt free and living on cash, my net worth isn’t going to be the best way to gauge my progress. I have to keep an eyes on the details.

If I were to have $400,000 in assets and owe $300,000 at the end of November, my net worth would be better than it is today. However, I think I would be farther from my goal than ever because right now, I’m only $183,393 from being debt free but in November I would be $300,000 from being debt free.

How important do you think net worth is and why? I would love to know your opinion.

My goals are:

1. Get out of debt. Not just credit card and student loan debt, but all debt. I’m ready to live a cash based life, and I have been for a while. I’m not anywhere near there yet, but I do hope to someday be able to buy a car or other big ticket item and write a check on the spot for it. :-) That would be really nice.
2. Stay out of debt.
3. Live a cash based existence.

It really is that simple. These are the things I want and these are the goals I’m working toward.

Honesty

I make a pledge now, that I’ll be unfailingly honest about every aspect of my journey.

My main posting day will be Tuesday, but I may post more often if I can. I’ll see you back here tomorrow.